Hello there! Finally the weather got better here in my hometown in Brazil and I had a chance to wear something different than my Havaianas sandals. It's been so note lately that the best thing to do is to stay home with the AC on. I'm a big fan of blue jeans and mixing the color this way makes a super fun look. It's getting cold in Miami and I love it : Finally I can wear my winter clothes. Leather jackets, sweaters and boots, so exciting for someone who's always in the sun! The colors are my favorite combo, red, black and white in an amazing aztec print. Before I left home today my mom looked at me and said: "Are you going out like this"?
In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. I am also certain that there are callings and opportunities that I would have had, were I married to a faithful LDS woman, that I have missed. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. I agree with Rachel- this is not what I signed up for. Don't put them through that either. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God.
Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. I am a very independent person socially so I often do not think to call people just because I am fine doing things myself. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife.
Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut. I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions.